So last night I went out to dinner with Robert and his roommate (soon to be former roommate) Steve. Steve brought his girlfriend Lindsey, so I think it was my first official "double-date". It went really well, but I never expected it not to. I am comfortable around Robert, and I've hung out with him and Steve a lot. It helps that Lindsey is great too, we even dress alike, lol. Afterwards we went to see Lindsey and Steve's new apartment in Rochester. It's really an impressive apartment. While I was there I was thinking about how I've never really given any thought about how I feel about living with someone (aka a boyfriend). I've never even considered if I'd want to, or more importantly if my parents would let me, live with someone before I got married. I mean, it is 2005, and people live together all the time before getting married, or even live together and never get married. I don't see it as that big of a deal as an on-looker, but when considering it for myself I feel different. I mean without coming out and gettting married, you are basically making a serious committment to another person, emotionally, financially, and legally (depending on the lease, lol). I guess I've never really been serious enough with a person to think about these kind of things. But I have to admitt, I am a little old fashioned and think I would have a hard time moving in with someone who's only a boyfriend. I also say that because I'm a subborn independant person I'm sure I would get sick of someone real quick once I lived with them. So props to all you committed, daring couples... my thoughts and prayers are with you.

Man, I am bad at this whole bloggint thing. My fellow bloggers (Erica, Joe) actually write on a consistant basis and more than just pathetic updates. Unfortunately I'm not as dedicated, or as open I suppose, but I will give the ever-awaited update!

Career: I've applied for a position at the Ramada in Sales and also at the Hampton Inn that is scheduled to open in June as the Executive Housekeeper/Assistant Generall Manager. I decided that if I'm going to be in Geneva for much longer I need to do as much for my career as possible. Both of these positions will bring me more money, and also more challenge and responsibility.

Friendships: Not much new here. I see Joe when I can. I went to see Steph in Syracuse yesterday. Erica is coming home this weekend I believe. I think I'm gonna see Lynn on Saturday. OH, and Angie came to visit the first weekend in April. We went out in G-town and had a really good time. It was great to see her and I wish it happened more often. Maybe I'll move to DC next!

Vacations: A week from tomorrow I leave for ATLANTA! Steph has decided to come with me too! It's going to be ridiculous. We are staying with my roommates from college Beth and Kristin. As I mentioned before I'm also going to Vegas at the end of June with Joe and Erica...

Boys: Wow, where do I begin! It's been a long time, but I'm happy to report that I officially have a boyfriend. His name is Robert and he's quite possibly the greatest (straight) guy I know. I'm really excited and I will go on more in future posts about him I'm sure :)

Living Situation: due to the above stated info, I am looking for an apartment since I will hopefully be making more money, and also need to have a little more freedom when I comes to my relationship with Robert. I am not looking for anything long term really, just something to get my foot out the door!

Take on American Idol: SERIOUSLY! SCOTT NEEDS TO GO!!!! HE SUCKS ASS!!! Carrie I love you!

until next time... peace out!

To all my loyal blog readers (aka Joe, Erica and maybe Scott Baio): I apologize for the lack of substence in my blog, and lack of entries. I am a busy woman, and by busy I mean lazy.

I will briefly summerize the excitement in my life these days.

Career: I am loathing my job currently. Not a real shocker, since I've never had a job I liked... except that one stipping gig I had for awhile. My employees, when they decided to come to work, are usually hungover or bitchy. I am learning to accept that this may be a perminant issue, but I'm not giving up or looking for other work presently. I'm hoping I can just find some decent people to hire and make the most of the situation. If nothing else, I am getting a crash course in stress management.

Friendships: I have been having a great time with my friends (as usual). Joe and I spat every now and then, but how could we not? We are two stubburn individuals who spend a lot of time together, anyone would disagree every now and then. The great thing about Joe and I, is that we know that we just get annoyed with eachother sometimes and are usually reconcilled shortly after any sparring. And I constantly refer to him as my gay soulmate. (barf!) Erica has come to Geneva a few times in the past couple weeks which is always a breath of fresh air. Not to mention the impending visit of one Miss Angela Aloia to Rochester that is sure to be the social event of the week, possibly month.

Vacations: I am planning a trip to Beth and Kristin's pad in Hotlanta the first weekend in May to stalk Ludacris. Did I mention he has a penthouse in their building? I'm going to get some pics paparazi style. I am also penciled in for a visit to Sin City in June for the Perry Family Vacation... I'm rackin up the frequent flier miles this year :)

Boys: Thankfully I've found someone in Geneva that I have been having a great time hanging out with. It is a relief to meet someone new! It's giving me something to smile about.

Living Situation: I need to move out of my parents house. I'm pathetic, I know. Anyone looking for a roommate?

Favorite American Idol Finalist: (I know this is the most important piece of info missing from the blog) CARRIE UNDERWOOD. She puts the others to shame. Please America, get rid of the damn crappy guys singers.

I think that brings everyone (Joe, Erica and Scott) up to date. I'll try and keep things more interesting and up to date. Osborne out!